Meet Luke, aged 13, who was diagnosed with a cancer of the blood.
Last year, Luke, 13, complained of a sore neck. His granny – and primary carer - Lindsey took him to Darlington Hospital for an ultrasound and blood tests. He was diagnosed with T-cell acute lymphoblastic lymphoma, a cancer of the blood.
Before Rainbow Trust, Luke had not been out or seen friends for 10 months.
Family Support Worker Monica has helped with Luke’s anxiety and lack of confidence and provided respite for Lindsey.
When Luke was diagnosed, life changed dramatically for the whole family. Luke endured intensive chemotherapy, multiple blood and platelet transfusions, long periods of isolation and he had to leave school because of the treatment.
Luke’s grandmother Lindsey became his primary carer, alongside caring full time for Luke’s mum Laura, who is disabled. Their lives became a relentless cycle of hospital visits and treatments.
Luke, now in the maintenance stage until January 2027, will receive chemotherapy every two weeks, at home or in hospital.
Before Rainbow Trust, Luke had not socialised for almost 10 months. Family Support Worker Monica has helped with Luke’s anxiety and lack of confidence by taking him out on trips with other seriously ill children. She has provided respite for Lindsey.
Luke says: “When they told me I had cancer we all burst out crying. Family Support Worker Monica is the nicest person I’ve met. Monica makes me laugh and it makes me happy to be around different people. Rainbow Trust has made a big difference because it's nice for me to go out and meet new people, and Monica is the nicest person I've met. It's made a very big difference to everything in the isolation I've been through.
“Monica’s kind. She’s taller than me. I’m going bowling soon with Monica. The first time I won. I want to beat Monica.”
Luke’s gran Lindsey says: “The last 11 months have been horrendous for Luke. Before Rainbow Trust I felt like we didn't really have anybody to reach out to.
“It's been really good for Luke, because for the last 11 months, he spent all of his time with me, his mum and auntie. It was lovely for him to get out with Monica and do something enjoyable, meeting other people, and socialising rather than just being around us all the time, because we did find he was getting quite clingy with me.”
Read Luke's story
Luke.
When they told me I had cancer we all burst out crying. Family Support Worker Monica is the nicest person I’ve met.
Zillah Bingley, Chief Executive, Rainbow Trust
Families tell us the imprints or impressions we leave on their lives will last forever: that special memory of their seriously ill child laughing with a Family Support Worker or that constant reminder that they are not facing serious childhood illness alone. Whether we are supporting a family right now or in the past, Rainbow Trust leaves a lasting legacy.
We are delighted to share our Impact Report, Imprints: in which families with a child with a life-threatening or terminal illness describe the lasting effect Rainbow Trust has on their lives.
hours of transport support, including to vital medical appointments, alleviating the stress for exhausted parents.
1,897
hours of support given to seriously ill children, including sitting by their hospital bedside, helping them feel less scared and less isolated.
4,051
families with a seriously ill child were provided practical and emotional support so they didn't have to cope alone.
1,274
Our impact in numbers
1850
hours of transport support, including to medical appointments, were given to exhausted parents, helping to alleviate the strain.
4000
hours of support given to seriously ill children, including sitting by their hospital bedside, helping them feel less scared and less isolated.
1200
families with a seriously ill child were provided practical and emotional support which meant they didn't have to cope alone.
families were provided with bereavement support, giving them time to talk about their grief and to keep their child’s memory alive.
60
days out with families, helping them to spend more time together and enjoy much-needed respite.
138
siblings supported, which meant brothers and sisters of a seriously ill child had someone to talk to and the chance to have some fun and enjoy being a child again.
645
Our impact in numbers
families were provided with bereavement support, giving them time to talk about their grief and to keep their child’s memory alive.
60
days out with families, helping them to spend more time together and enjoy much-needed respite.
138
siblings supported, which meant brothers and sisters of a seriously ill child had someone to talk to and the chance to have some fun and enjoy being a child again.
645
hours of transport support, including to vital medical appointments, alleviating the stress for exhausted parents.
1,897
hours of support given to seriously ill children, including sitting by their hospital bedside, helping them feel less scared and less isolated.
4,051
families with a seriously ill child were provided practical and emotional support so they didn't have to cope alone.
1,274
Our impact in numbers
We make a difference to families’ lives in many ways: giving them the strength to face each day; to leave the house; to visit their child’s grave; to attend vital hospital appointments; to make a scared sibling feel heard; alleviating feelings of isolation; and helping children stay in education.
Our support enables children to be discharged from hospital sooner relieving pressure on beds and the social care system; reducing the risk of a potential crisis situation developing.
We help families to cope.
Our impact makes a difference
Meet Elodie, aged 19 months. At five days old, Elodie was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder, Edwards’ Syndrome.
At five days old, Elodie was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder, Edwards’ Syndrome. Now 18 months old she is defying the odds: most babies with the same diagnosis do not live past their first birthday. Her parents, Jess and James, care for her round the clock, taking it in turns to work and sleep.
Rainbow Trust Family Support Worker Laura has become a vital source of support for the family, providing practical and emotional support so her parents can have a break from Elodie’s hospital bedside, work, sleep and cope everyday. Laura has a very special bond with Elodie.
Elodie also has a hole in her heart, so if she gets too upset her oxygen levels drop rapidly so they have to keep her calm.
Elodie’s very low muscle tone means she cannot hold objects or entertain herself, she struggles to sleep, often waking every hour. Her parents are permanently exhausted, juggling Elodie’s illness with wanting to cherish every moment they have together.
Family Support Worker Laura began supporting them six months after Elodie was born. She has become a lifeline.
When Jess and Elodie were in hospital for five weeks earlier this year, Laura enabled them to have a much-needed respite by sitting with Elodie so they could leave her bedside.
“Knowing Rainbow Trust Family Support Worker Laura has got the experience with so many other families means we don’t feel so isolated.
“Laura has always come to the hospital during Elodie’s stays there which was a huge help because we didn’t want to leave Elodie in hospital on her own. We hadn’t left her before, one of us was there 24 hours a day for three weeks and Laura was one of the only people we left her with. That was a relief to know that we have this extra trusted family member almost.
“We have probably had no more than an hour’s sleep at a time since she was born, apart from when it’s our turn to work the next day.
“During winter we have to keep away from everybody which is pretty depressing. When we were in hospital for five weeks it was really scary and exhausting.
“It’s hard enough just to eat some food or make a coffee. When Laura’s here I always end up with a huge to do list and I can actually get some things ticked off on those days. The main thing I always want to do is have a shower because that always seems to just get pushed further and further down the pile because night times are disastrous.
“It’s constant trouble shooting. She doesn’t seem to need as much sleep as other babies her size or age and she wants lots of interaction and attention. She can’t hold her own bottle and because she is the size of a five month old she still has a bottle every couple of hours.
“It’s a huge relief knowing Laura is coming and that Elodie is going to have a nice time and be stimulated and happy for those few hours.”
Read Elodie's story
Elodie's mum, Jess.
Describing the impact Rainbow Trust has in one word: relief.
Having a child in hospital puts a tremendous strain on families, tearing them apart as they juggle visits with caring for siblings at home.
Family Support Workers can keep a child company in hospital giving their parents respite, knowing their seriously ill child is not alone.
Family Support Workers enable families to be together again when they need it most.
Hospital support
When a child is diagnosed with a serious illness, family life is turned upside down as parents struggle to cope with the reality that their child might die.
We are the only charity dedicated to supporting the whole family: including parents, carers, the unwell child, brothers, sisters and grandparents.
We pair families caring for a terminally ill child with a Family Support Worker who provides them with practical and emotional support for as long as it is needed.
How Rainbow Trust supports
Supporting siblings of a seriously ill child helps reduce the risks of them experiencing a long-term impact on their mental health and education.
We support siblings emotionally by providing them with coping mechanisms and an outlet to process their feelings as they can often feel forgotten.
We also drive them to school or hospital, help with homework, or simply spend time with them to reduce isolation.
Sibling support
For families caring for a life-threatened child, getting to and from hospital can be a huge strain, particularly negotiating public transport. A Family Support Worker driving families to hospital gives them a chance to relax rather than having to follow directions and park.
Knowing their Family Support Worker is waiting to take them home after long and emotionally exhausting days is one less thing to think about.
Transport support
We know the way families are supported before they face bereavement has an impact on how they mange their feelings.
Family Support Workers are instrumental in helping families manage grief because they also knew the child. They share memories, create memory boxes, mark anniversaries, and provide space for parents and siblings to express their feelings.
Our bereavement support starts before a child dies and continues as long as needed.
Bereavement support
Watch the BBC Lifeline Appeal:
A generous match funder agreed to match every pound raised up to £25,000, bringing our total to £52,000, enough to pay for a Family Support Worker to support up to 25 families.
In May, Rainbow Trust featured in the BBC Lifeline Appeal film. Our heartfelt thanks to: Gyles Brandreth for presenting it; three families, Shailza, Laura and Ben, and Terry and Cheryl who featured and shared their stories of caring for a seriously ill child, and supporters like you, who watched and donated.
Their Family Support Worker helps with family life and specifically supporting their mum.
Having fun, spending time with my Family Support Worker playing, talking and being listened to.
Activities and days out with my Family Support Worker.
Children and siblings supported by Rainbow Trust told us their favourite things about us are:
said Rainbow Trust helps their family have more quality time together.
83%
said we help support their mental health.
79%
of families said their Family Support Worker helps them manage stress.
81%
We asked parents and carers supported by Rainbow Trust what impact their Family Support Worker has made:
Our snapshot audit
These are some of the challenges families with a seriously ill child face every day...
How Rainbow Trust's support eases these challenges for families...
We collaborate with social services, education and health providers to signpost families. Our Family Support Workers advocate for families where there are gaps in wider provision, helping to improve their quality of life.
Highlight
The rising cost of living has led to poorer mental health, difficulties with housing and accessing additional support from community providers including food banks.
Challenge
We raised £4.9million to ensure we can support more families. 99% of our income is donated by members of the public and we couldn’t have provided this vital support without you.
Highlight
The increased cost of living affects fundraising.
Challenge
We supported 1,274 families last year, 7.5% more than the previous year. Our mission remains resolute: that every child in the UK who has a child with a life-threatening illness receives the support they need.
Highlight
There is an increasing number of children with life-threatening or terminal conditions across the UK, the number has been predicted to rise to over 120,000 children by 2030 in England.
Challenge
Our vital support for families facing the unimaginable never waivers when the complexities of caring for a seriously ill child increase.
The challenges we face as a charity
Meet Louie, aged 15 months, who was diagnosed with a genetic condition at 10 days old.
When Louie was diagnosed at 10 days old with a genetic condition, CD40 ligand deficiency, which only affects males, family life changed forever for Louie, his parents Rebecca and Paul and Louie’s older sister Iona, aged four.
At just seven months old Louie was admitted to the Great North Children’s Hospital in Newcastle in February 2024, where he underwent a stem cell transplant with stem cells donated from his dad, Paul.
Within the first week of Louie’s hospital stay, Rebecca and Paul were introduced to Family Support Worker Shelly. Before Shelly stepped in, Rebecca and Paul were forced apart, juggling taking it in turns to stay with Louie in hospital in Newcastle and looking after their daughter, Louie’s sister Iona at their home three hours away.
As Louie’s condition required constant care, Rebecca and Paul faced the overwhelming task of juggling hospital stays, their four-year-old daughter Iona’s care, and their own mental well-being.
Before Rainbow Trust, Rebecca and Paul were taking it in turns to be with Louie in hospital. Rebecca would stay in hospital with Louie from Monday to Thursday and then swap with Paul to takeover from Friday to Sunday.
Without Family Support Worker Shelly, they would not have had quality time together while Louie was in hospital.
Crucially, Rebecca and Paul trusted Shelly to stay by Louie’s hospital bedside while they spent some time together.
“We instantly trusted Rainbow Trust Family Support Worker Shelly and were happy to leave Louie with her for that amount of time.
“We spent nine weeks in hospital in complete isolation, because of the risk of infection during Louie’s chemotherapy. Some days I couldn’t even leave the room, it was really hard mentally, but you just have to get through it. Shelly’s support has had a positive impact on our mental health by allowing us that time out. It was so intense, 24-7.
“His little face used to light up when Shelly came into the room: he loves Shelly. I think he liked the nurses, but obviously he was worried that they were going to do something to him. But obviously, because he was a baby, he didn't really understand, but he did definitely recognise Shelly.
“It was a struggle to get any sleep so we swapped over every three days. Before Rainbow Trust we were like ships in the night. Paul and I wouldn’t have been able to have a break together. Some weeks I wouldn’t have had a break at all if it wasn’t for Shelly and Rainbow Trust. I wouldn’t have been able to leave the hospital room all day.
“Without Rainbow Trust we wouldn’t have been able to go out and do normal things like get a coffee. Things you take for granted.”
Read Louie's story
Rebecca and Paul, Louie's parents
We instantly trusted Rainbow Trust Family Support Worker Shelly and were happy to leave Louie with her for that amount of time. Louie’s face lit up when Shelly came into the room.
The Kentown Children's Palliative Care Programme
Bringing together nursing care, social care and information and awareness, it is designed to ease the impact on families with a seriously ill child by signposting them and helping them to access services in their communities.
So far, the programme has supported 94 families. Feedback from families has been very positive reporting reduced levels of stress and increased overall wellbeing. We look forward to sharing more detail about the impact the programme has had on families after the team at Edge Hill University have finished evaluating it.
We celebrated a year of the Kentown Children’s Palliative Care Programme, a three-year pilot collaboration between Rainbow Trust Family Support Workers, Together for Short Lives Family Service Co-ordinators and Specialist Children’s Palliative Care Nurses from five NHS Trusts across the region, funded by The Kentown Wizard Foundation.
Volunteers giving back
Our volunteers impact every part of our work: from families to fundraising; leaving little imprints throughout.
This year our 218 volunteers donated 2,176 hours. This included 44 volunteers directly supporting families.
Sarah
I love volunteering at Rainbow Trust – it is a friendly and inclusive environment where I feel I can make a genuine contribution to the incredible work Rainbow Trust does; supporting families in desperate need.
This is an overview of our 2023-24 income and expenditure, summarised from our financial statements, which can be found on Companies House.
Investments - £21,663
Statutory bodies - £64,145
Special events - £149,400
Gifts in wills - £678,309
Volunteer, local and sports events - £757,200
Corporate partnerships - £815,800
Trust and foundations - £1,123,520
Individual donations - £1,296,235
80p of every £1 was spent directly on supporting families.
We spend the money you give us with great care.
How we spent the money you raised
In 2023-24 with thanks to your generosity we raised £4.9m for families caring for a seriously ill child.
How you gave us your support
Mark Cunningham, Rainbow Trust Chairman
Over the coming year, while remaining mindful of the economic climate and the uncertainty surrounding the impact that may bring, we will continue to respond resolutely to the challenges facing seriously ill children and their families.
Reaching more of these families and those in most need will continue to be an absolute priority: delivering expert social palliative care - essential support that a family needs alongside medical care – to ensure a family’s practical and emotional needs are not forgotten.
Thanks to each and every one of you for helping Rainbow Trust remain the one constant in many families’ lives.
Looking ahead to the coming year
Thank you to our trustees for your tenacity and unwavering support. Thank you to all our celebrity ambassadors, event committee members, the Hampshire Friends and to Michael Josephson MBE.
So many people have made the work of Rainbow Trust possible. You have run marathons, climbed mountains, hosted wonderful events, baked and eaten cakes, donated online, by cheque and through payroll giving. Volunteered with our Care teams, at our events, in our offices, and so much more.
Thank you to everyone who has supported us, we couldn’t do it without you.
- Almacantar
- Alresford Golf Club
- Burlington Arcade
- Carfest
- CASCAID
- Chessington Garden Centre
- Durham University
- Gallagher Bassett
- Gatehouse Bank
- Harold Wood Friends Group
- I Love Claims and the ILC community
- Invesco
- Investigo
- LABC
- Michael Josephson MBE
- Natta Building Company
- New Forest District Council
- Phoenox Textiles
- RBC Capital Markets
- Reeds School
- Samsic UK Ltd
- Statom Group
- Taylor Wimpey South Thames
- Tracks Publishing Ltd
- University of Southampton RAG
Organisations
- Always Look On The Bright Side Of Life Charitable Trust
- BBC Children in Need
- Cleopatra Trust
- EBM Charitable Trust
- Ernest Kleinwort Charitable Trust
- Essex Community Foundation
- Geoff & Fiona Squire Foundation
- Lord Barnby's Foundation
- Martin Charitable Trust
- Masonic Charitable Foundation
- Merlins Magic Wand Children's Charity
- Surrey County Council
- Tees Foundation
- The Arah Foundation
- The Bryan and June Amos Foundation
- The Elsie Davis Trust
- The Eric Wright Charitable Trust
- The February Foundation
- The Gerald Palmer Eling Trust
- The Ingram Trust
- The Kentown Wizard Foundation
- The Lawson Trust CIO
- The Oak Foundation
- The Sir James Knott Trust
- The Sterry Family Foundation
- The Taurus Foundation
- The Taylor Family Foundation
- The Zochonis Charitable Trust
Trusts and foundations
Thank you to all the wonderful families who inspire us every day
Terry, Bea’s Dad.
Rainbow Trust, because of Monica and her relationship with Bea, will be forever a part of our family. Through the darkest of times the support never wavered.
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